“Your article about coping with parents’ money problems made me think about the bad money habits that I picked up from my father. My parents had different attitudes about money – my mother was a saver but my father spent all he had.

“I adored Dad and I wanted to be just like him; so I never saved and gave money away just like he did. I now see where this has hurt me because I have no money. I think people need to be aware of how their parents can influence their attitudes about money.”

Your finances are in serious disarray. You live from one pay cheque to the next. You give thanks for your credit card, as without it you wouldn’t even be able to buy petrol. You know that something is very wrong – you earn enough to save and live comfortably, but somehow financial success seems like an impossible dream.

You decide to get help to fix your money problems. Books, newspaper articles, television shows and Internet websites about money become your obsession. You even get professional financial advice.

Gradually you learn the steps you need to take to turn around your life. You start with a strong intention to do the right things, yet eventually, you go right back to your bad money behaviours. Continue reading Can Your Past Influence Your Present Money Habits? →